Why Do People Believe Our Ambitions Are Silly?

It's fascinating to observe that people often base their motivations on societal standards. While there are wonderful motivational talks out there, I will instead delve into what I believe is causing this phenomenon in our world. Keep in mind, I am not a physiologist, but I am confident in the following ideas.

Humans have a natural inclination to place more value on the opinions of society rather than our own personal opinions. This is an inherent aspect of human nature. For children, they are full of creativity and imagination. However, when adults look at kids, they often think, "To conform to societal expectations and gain immediate recognition, they should sacrifice their dreams."

The Power of the Majority

Interestingly, people place a great deal of weight on the opinions and judgments of society, especially when these opinions are shared by a large number of people. This phenomenon is known as _ad populum. It means that something is supported simply because the majority believes it. This inclination towards societal validation can be quite profound.

Building Our Own Path

Instead of waiting for people to believe in our ambitions, consider this: If you don't build your dream, someone will hire you to help build theirs. - Tony A. Gaskins Jr. This mindset can be incredibly empowering. It encourages you to focus on your own dreams and not on the validation of others.

The Importance of Following Your Passions

One common belief is that people do not believe in our ambitions until they see us achieve them. However, this is not entirely true. Instead, the issue lies in the illusion that society and the majority are always right. To truly succeed, we must start building our own path and not rely on others' approval.

It's worth noting that children aged 1 to 2 or 3 learn more than adults and remain incredibly creative and active. This is because they only do what they want, free from the constraints of school and societal expectations. Science even supports this, suggesting that children learn predominantly through play. This is because play is not just a waste of time; it is a fundamental way of learning.

Taking Charge of Your Future

Recall that human life is incredibly short and precious. We must make the most of it by following our dreams. This is perhaps the only chance we have to truly live our lives to the fullest.

In conclusion, while societal norms can be powerful, it's important to build our own path and follow our dreams. Remember, society and the majority are not always right, and the only person who can truly validate your ambitions is you. So, take control of your future and make the most of your life.