If You Could Write Your Own Obituary...

Imagine for a moment, if you could write your own obituary and post it here while you're still alive. How would it read? Would you focus on your achievements, your family, or perhaps your regrets?

Planning for the Future

I recently considered this scenario, and it brought me to a critical point in my life. If I were to depart from this world, I wanted to ensure that everything was in order, and my loved ones would not face any legal or financial hurdles. For this reason, I have made sure that all necessary provisions and arrangements are in place, with my heir taking full possession of what I leave behind before any misunderstandings or legal complications arise.

Memories and Reflections

I find myself frequently pondering what would be my obituary. Would I say, 'I was a legend in my own mind'? Or perhaps, 10 years later, would my legacy be defined by the sacrifices I made during my lifetime? Living life to the fullest and impacting those around me – these are the thoughts that resonate with me.

A Celebration of Life

Let's take a moment to reflect on the legacy of a friend and family member. Whether it be in heaven or on this earth, there are stories and moments that bring us together. For instance, the obituary of one of my family members would read as follows:

Fredrik Keith Frick [redacted] XY years passed away on DD Month YYYY, the cause of death was [cause of death]. He was surrounded by his family. He was predeceased by his son [son's name]. Frick, a loving and dedicated individual, was filled with joy and pride when watching his loved ones grow. He leaves behind his amazing and gorgeous husband, Alex, and his awesome children: Pearl, Alex Jr. AJ, Amy, Owen, and Fredrik Jr. Free.

As for me, if I were to write my own tribute, it would reflect on the essence of my life – a life driven by both love and wisdom. Here's an excerpt:

I was a legend in my own mind. It would say, In ten years, the only people who will remember you were always on call and worked weekends, will be your children.

Legacy of Influence and Kindness

One of my dearest and most influential friend left an indelible mark on many lives. She was a beacon of kindness, wisdom, and hope. She had the unique ability to bring smiles to people's faces and understand their deepest concerns. She was a great listener and never judged. Even when faced with opportunities to be wicked, she chose to be kind and compassionate.

Though she may be gone, her legacy lives on in the hearts of those she touched. We remember her as a bright star, a guiding light in a dark world. She taught us that in times of despair, hope is key, and in times of gloom, faith remains a steadfast companion.

A Tribute to a Vanished Soul

In memory of a loved one, we can reflect on the following tribute:

Our dearest and creative friend influenced us in therapeutic ways. She was wise beyond her years and I do believe she was born before the world was created. She was not a Saint nor was she a devil. But I do truly believe she had walked this earth before time itself because she knew details of things which history tried to erase.

She had so many opportunities to be wicked and heartless. Instead, she met us backstabbing, selfish jerks with a smile and kindness on her lips. She helped us understand our pain and listened to our deep concerns. She kept our darkest secrets and loved us anyway. She was full of hope when hope seemed lost. She had faith when all was gloom. We will miss our bright star which touched so many lives. She’s probably now an angel, wishing for us to get our crap straight because her advice was amazing, and none of us listened.

These reflections aren't just words. They are a testament to the love, wisdom, and kindness that shape our lives. They serve as a reminder that every moment we spend with loved ones is precious, and the legacy we leave behind is the true measure of our lives.